LOVE MAINE RADIO · EPISODE 261 · SEPTEMBER 16, 2016

Hometown Proud #261

Episode summary

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc, chief medical officer at Greater Portland Health, and Michael McGraw, coach of the state-championship Lewiston boys soccer team, joined Dr. Lisa Belisle on Love Maine Radio for a conversation about coming home to the cities that raised them. Fay-Leblanc, who had not imagined returning to Portland after medical training and time in New York, reflected on the diversity she and her family found in the city and on her work leading a community health center serving a wide range of patients. McGraw, whose Lewiston team drew players from the city's longtime families alongside young men from immigrant and refugee communities, described the way soccer became a shared language across difference. From primary care and community health to youth sports, immigration, and intergenerational change in Maine cities, the conversation considered what it means to bring one's gifts back to the place that raised you in a small New England city.

Transcript

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

I didn't think I would come back to Portland. I hadn't planned that far ahead. And when we were in New York, one of the things that we really liked was the diversity and we really wanted to be in a place where kids could grow up with some diversity. So, you know, it's sort of pleasantly surprised by what's happened in Portland in that, you know, I really think there's a lot of strength that comes from diversity.

Michael McGraw:

I think that's the one thing about, about my kids is they are happy. They're, they're happy to be with each other. And I don't mean just smil kids and the kids from the Congo, they're happy with everybody. Because what I think is a wonderful thing is that the white players and the black players can because of the game, they mesh together. They understand. It's like an international language.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

This is Dr. Lisa Belisle and you are listening to Love Maine Radio Show Number 261, Hometown Proud. Airing for the first time on Sunday, September, September 18, 2016. Mainers feel a fierce connection to their hometowns and rightfully so. We are shaped by where we are raised and in some cases have an opportunity to offer our gifts back to these communities. Today's guests returned as adults to live and work in their hometowns. Dr. Renee Faye LeBlanc is a physician and chief medical officer at Greater Portland Health. Michael McGraw is the coach of the state championship Lewiston boys soccer team. I know you will enjoy listening to our conversations. Thank you for joining.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

It's always very fun to have people in the studio with Me whose names and reputation succeed them. And this individual in a good way. This individual is a board certified physician. This is Dr. Renee Faye LeBlanc, who attended medical school at the University of Vermont and completed her residency in Internal medicine at New York University. Renee has been working in the Portland area for the last 10 years and as the Chief Medical Officer at Greater Portland Health since 2014. Renee loves providing vital primary care services to the community in Portland where she was born and raised. She now lives in Portland with her husband and two sons. Thanks so much for coming in today.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

Thank you for having me.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

I really do love the story of being born and raised and educated and going away for your education, doing a little bit of doctoring elsewhere and then being back here again and helping out the people in the city. I mean, that's a great story and it doesn't always happen.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

Yeah. And I think it was not a story that was planned out that way. I left for college and didn't expect to move back to Maine. And then, you know, was pre med in college mostly because I liked science and wanted to be a biology major. And being pre med was pretty similar to that. So after, after Holy Cross where I went to college, I actually spent a year abroad in Guyana, South America, with a Watson Fellowship and was supposed to be learning about traditional healing there. But that's a very long story. But it was a great experience. And then from there actually went out to Oakland, California where I worked as a medical assistant for a couple of years before going to medical school. And then when I went to medical school, I decided I wanted to be closer to my family. So went to the University of Vermont and then my husband was getting an MFA in poetry at the same time that I was going to do my residency. And it was either Iowa or Manhattan. Manhattan. So that's how we ended up in New York City and then ended up spending four years in New York City. I completed my residency there, he completed his MFA and had our first child and quickly decided that our 400 square foot third floor walk up wasn't going to do it for us. So we really moved back to Maine to be closer to family. And it wasn't until we got here that we really understood. I mean, I had been gone for almost 20 years and so that there's a really good writing and arts community here for my husband also. It's a great place to raise our kids. And the medical community here is just. I just think that it's filled with really smart, compassionate people. So it was a nice place to Call home. So we sort of circled back and it's been 10 years now that we circle back. And I think we, my husband and I both feel really lucky that we did. And my job right now at Greater Portland Health is extremely fulfilling for me because it's very much a place that wants to. To make our community better. And I think it's uncommon that people get that opportunity to really do something that they love, that they feel is making a difference in the place where they grew up and where they're, you know, raising their kids. So I feel really fortunate about the whole thing. And none of it was planned unless

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

there's some bigger something that maybe, maybe, maybe.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

And, you know, it's so interesting to think back about decisions that you've made or things that have happened. And then, you know, years later you think, huh, that really brought me to a place that I never imagined it would. So, yeah, so it's been good.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

Tell me about Greater Portland Health. That is a public health program and also clinical program for the city of Portland.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

So Greater Portland Health was previously called the Portland Community Health Center. We just changed our name. We are a federally qualified health center, which means that we are supported through grant funding from the federal government to take care of people regardless of their ability to pay, which is very important to me. And the health center started in 2009. It actually was a group of community members who really wanted to bring a health center to Maine, who put together a proposal that was initially denied. Then when Obama took office, he granted 11, no, not 11, 100 health centers who had been denied. He granted them grants to become health centers. And the Portland Community Health center was one of those places. So it started out as a joint venture with the city of Portland, and over time the goal was to be an independent non profit, which is what we are now. We're governed by a community board that needs to be at least 50% patients. And they really set the direction and the tone of the health center. So the health center has grown very rapidly over the last seven years from one site and a couple hundred patients to now we have five different sites, 6,500 patients, and are growing, continuing to grow rapidly. We've got several new programs that we're working on right now for a variety of reasons. You know, healthcare has changed a lot. And so as a federally qualified health center, we have the opportunity and have been writing a lot of grants, trying to keep as many services as possible in Portland. We also have an interesting sort of environment here. One thing is that we didn't expand Maine care. We're the only state in New England that did not do that. And that has really hurt our citizens. The other thing is that we have a lot of people who come to Portland to get away from violence in other places. So a lot of people here seeking asylum who don't have access to services. And so a lot of those patients come to get their care at the health center. We also are a regular primary care practice. And so we see people with any kind of health insurance. People sometimes tell me, well, you know, I don't want to go to the health center because I don't want to take somebody's spot. And it's actually the opposite. I mean, it really helps us. If we have patients who have insurance, we bill their insurance, and it helps us pay for those patients who can't pay. And so we have a variety of different patients. We see kids and adults. We have a integrated behavioral health model. So our teams, we have teams that include physicians, nurse practitioners, physician's assistants, licensed clinical social workers, nurses. We're in the process of bringing in some more psychiatry, in the process of developing a infectious disease team. And we're also taking over or transitioning the healthcare centers in the schools. We'll also be running those starting in the fall. So there's a lot happening at the health center. It's really growing. It's a very vibrant place. In addition to the medical and behavioral health services, we have community health workers who help people with where to get food, housing, transportation. We have financial counselors who try to help people get insurance if they can and then put on our slide if they can't. But we really try to wrap services around people. So it's not just their physical health that we're worried about, but their living conditions, their working conditions, their mental health kind of all together.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

What does it mean to be a federally qualified health center?

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

So federally qualified health Centers, there are 19 requirements that are set up by the federal government, and they are things like you have to have a board that's community board, that's more than 50% patients. Only a certain percentage, I think it's 10% of the board or less, has to be in the healthcare, can be in the healthcare field. So they don't want the board filled with healthcare CEOs. Basically, they want it to be community members. You have to have a sliding scale free. So for patients, depending on where they are in the poverty line, you have to to reduce the fee. So some people pay $10, some people may pay $20, some people may Pay nothing. So you have to have that in place and have to see people regardless of their ability to pay. You need to have a pretty rigorous quality improvement program and be able to show the government what you're doing for quality improvement, what you're doing for peer review. We also, as a federally qualified health center, have something called FTCA deeming, which means that we get our malpractice insurance through the federal government. So because of that, they want to make sure that we're doing due diligence with the care that we provide. The other 19 requirements, I don't remember them all, but they're in a similar vein. There are financial requirements, there are governance requirements, there are clinical requirements. So you have to meet all of those 19 requirements in order to stay a federally qualified health center. You need to show that there's a need in the community in order to stay at a health center. And then in addition to following all of those rules, you need to keep your grants up to date. So it's a lot of grant writing, but basically then that means that the federal government will give us grant money that we can use to pay for some of the services that we offer, especially because right now at the health center, more than 50% of our patients really don't have any ability to pay. So it's a lot of people who don't have access to care otherwise.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

My understanding of federally qualified health centers is that they are often in rural areas. So in the state of Maine, we don't have that many urban areas, but this must be somewhat of a unique situation to have this right in Portland.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

So in large cities there are lots of health centers. Actually, the health centers in Maine, you're absolutely right, most of them are rural health centers. And Portland is an outlier. It's really the only one that is not rural. But in places like Boston and the Bay Area and New York, Washington, D.C. chicago, all have a lot of inner city healthcare centers as well. So there are, I want to say, around 1200 federally qualified health centers across the country. And so it's a mixture of rural and urban. I think for us at Greater Portland Health, and, you know, we are part of the Maine Primary Care association, and so we really work a lot with the other health centers. And some of the things that we deal with are the same, you know, whether you're rural or urban, but some of the things that we deal with are a little bit different. Primarily for us is the patient population and the diversity that we have and the language and cultural diversity that we have, which really, the other health centers in the state don't have as much of that, but there are other health centers in the country that certainly do.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

So when you say the diversity of the population, do you mean New Mainers who have come from other parts of the world?

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

Yeah, yeah. So we, you know, depending on the time period, it's different, folks. So for us, a lot of the patients who are from the Middle east or Afghanistan, Iraq have been here for a while. So the people that we're seeing, mostly that are new, are coming from Africa. So Burundi, Angola, the DRC is where we're seeing the majority of the newest patients. We certainly have a lot of Somali speaking patients. There are some that are new, but a lot of them have now been here for a little while. And so the patients that are new, new, most of them speak multiple languages, but a lot of them, we communicate with them using French. And in Angola they usually speak Portuguese. So those actually after English, I think French is the second most common language in the health center right now. And it's African French. It's not people from France.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

Well, that's, that's so interesting because I remember when I was taking French growing up and my family is French. I believe your family is also French.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

That's right.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

But it's a French Canadian. Sometimes it's more of a Parisian French that we're taught in schools. And here you are using some French, but it's not the same French.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

Yeah, so we, we do get by okay with the French. It seems like there's not a lot lost in translation there. It's the Portuguese that's spoken in Angola, which is very different. And so it can take a while to find an interpreter that actually speaks the right Portuguese to communicate with those patients. So that it's a little trickier. The French seems to be a little bit easier.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

And I know that in addition to having interpreters, you also will sometimes use interpreter phones. You'll actually have conversations over the phone lines. And that's an interesting experience as well.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

Yeah, you know, it's so interesting. We actually use the phones most of the time. What we have found is that the communities are pretty small and that people, patients, don't want an interpreter to show up, that they might know in another capacity. It makes them very uncomfortable. Now, that's not always the case. And some people really want that live interpreter and they'll want a specific person to come and interpret for them, which is fine. But otherwise we do use the telephone a lot. And it is kind of an interesting interaction. Some of the telephone interpreters are wonderful, and some of them are not. And then, you know, I've done this before where, you know, the patient sort of looks at me like, this is not working, and so we hang up and call someone else. But yeah, so we use the phone interpreters quite a bit. The other thing that we do is we hire people who can speak multiple languages whenever possible. So most of our front desk staff speak multiple languages. We have providers and nurses, medical assistants who speak multiple languages. And so within the health center, you know, we try to have that capacity in case we need to call someone, that sort of thing.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

You went to King Middle School.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

I did.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

Where your son, one of your sons, is now going, and you graduated from Portland High School.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

I did.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

Did you ever think as you were growing up that you would find yourself back in a situation where you were caring for Portland patients, but that they might not be the same types of Portland patients you might expect?

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

Yeah, well, you know, when I was at Portland High, Portland was a resettlement area back then. And so, you know, there were kids back then coming from Afghanistan and also a lot of kids from Southeast Asia. And so, you know, I think even back then, Portland was becoming more diverse. And I experienced more diversity at my, you know, Portland High school than I did when I went to college, which was not very diverse. I didn't think I would come back to Portland. I hadn't planned that far ahead. And when we were in New York, one of the things that we really liked was the diversity. And we really wanted to be in a place where our kids could grow up with some diversity. So, you know, I'm sort of pleasantly surprised by what's happened in Portland in that, you know, I really think there's a lot of strength that comes from diversity. And so, you know, my kids right now are at Ocean Ave, and my son just finished Ocean Ave and will be at King next year. But, you know, they have. They have quite a bit of diversity in their classrooms, which I really like. And, you know, I think that depending on what, you know, the decisions that Portland makes, there's a way to turn this diversity into something that can keep us very strong. Especially because my. A lot of the New Mainers that are here seeking asylum are very well educated. They speak multiple languages, they were professionals in their communities. And, you know, right now it's really difficult for them to work and get jobs. And when they do, it's usually not in their field. It's usually low level service jobs, you know, house cleaning, working at hotels, you know, Things like that. But there's a lot of potential, I think, in the community to really utilize the skills of the new folks that are coming. So I don't know if that answered your question. I think I got a little sidetracked.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

No, I think that's a good answer. Especially knowing that your experience of Portland growing up wasn't actually as different as one might think. Even though we think of Maine as being a fairly Caucasian state, that wasn't your experience of it not that long ago.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I think it's certainly more diverse now than it was, but there were certainly. There was certainly diversity in the high school when I was there. Yeah.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

One of the most interesting things about your home situation is that you're married to a poet, which I don't know how many people can actually say that, but certainly the doctor poet combination with the two young children. And I remember, I think that Gibson was maybe our first guest, if not one of our first guests for this entire radio show when he was still the director of the Telling Room. So tell me what that is like in your family.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

Yeah, so it's crazy, and it's wonderful. When I was in residency and Gibson was in his MFA program, we were always trying to get poets and doctors together. It never worked out, but so, you know, it's interesting. One of the reasons why I love what I do is that I listen to stories all day long. Patients come in and tell me these amazing things, and I try to do what I can to try to problem solve and that kind of stuff with them. I really love that. And so much about medicine is relationship and story. And really, that's what Gibson does, too. And so it's not so different, you know, if you sort of look at it that way. But, you know, our lives are a little bit of a juggling act in terms of, you know, the nuts and bolts of kind of running a household. We do sort of have a little bit of a, you know, our sort of home duties are a little different than other families that we know, but, you know, it works for us. Gibson has the ability to be more flexible with his time than I am, and so that's helpful for our kids. And I think, you know, we both try to talk to the kids like they understand what we do, they understand why we do it. They understand it's really important to us and that in our own ways, we're both kind of giving back to our community. I think Gibson's poetry and the work that he does is all really based in this community. And trying to bring arts and education and imagination to both kids and adults, and really seeing that those are ways that people, you know, that telling your story is a really important part of your life. Understanding things, trying to write things down or say them out loud, however you want to express yourself. So his professional life is very much about trying to be a positive force in the community, just like mine is. And so I think my kids get that, even when it's annoying if we're, you know, not doing what they want us to do at that moment. But the other thing is that it does take a village. We have an amazing amount of wonderful friends and neighbors and. And feel very supported by the community that we live in. And Gibson, actually, he's a poet. He's also a hockey player, and he had an injury about a month ago where he had an open fracture of his humerus and required emergent orthopedic surgery. Several days in the hospital, and it sort of turned upside down, kind of our, like, huh. We sort of had this, you know, work life, balance thing going until he couldn't participate. But it was actually, you know, I mean, a lot of people helped us out, and the kids rose to the occasion, and, you know, we worked through it. So I feel like, you know, every day is a little bit of an adventure.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

Well, I hope that his broken arm continues to heal quickly, and in that way, me too. And it's nice that he has a doctor to help him work through this transition.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

I'm not sure he thinks that.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

Well, I have to admit, whenever people in my family are sick, I think that they would rather that I wasn't a doctor, because I don't think I'm as nice as some of the nurses that I know. The nurses that I work with are so super warm and friendly and compassionate and caring. And I'm thinking my kids would love it if I could be a little bit less clinical and a little bit more. More soft and fuzzy and warm.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

Absolutely.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

I'm not saying you're like that, but.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

No, I'm certainly. No one gets much sympathy.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

Well, it sounds like you give sympathy in a broader spectrum in a larger way, so I wouldn't discount that possibility. Well, it's really been lovely to speak with you today and to hear more about Greater Portland Health. I know that there's been some controversy swirling about in the community, but I decided not to talk about that with you because, really, it sounds like you are doing great work. Your entire group is doing great work. You're moving forward. You're offering great health care and so I encourage people to learn more about Greater Portland Health. We've been speaking with board certified physician Dr. Renee Faye LeBlanc who was born and raised right here in Portland where she still lives and now offers care to her patients.

Dr. Renee Fay-Leblanc:

Thank you so much for having me.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

mom and actually lacrosse mom, swimming mom, just, you name it, I've been that kind of mom and athlete. I'm always very happy to have in the studio with me people who coach. And today we have a very special coach this this is coach Michael McGraw. Mike, who is the head coach of the boys soccer team at Lewiston High School. He led the team to the state championship last fall, which was no small feat. It's a really big deal and it's also a really big deal that you came in and were willing to have this conversation today. So thank you.

Michael McGraw:

You're very welcome. I'm happy to be here.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

Now this was, I believe, the first time that Lewiston High School won a state championship.

Michael McGraw:

Yep, it's the first time in probably, well since 1970. That's when Paul Netto, who was the coach at the time, he started the program and I like to call him the first father of soccer in our area.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

And the reason that this is a. It's a particularly big deal is because you received really national coverage for this win. Cnn, UST Today, USA Today, Portland Press Herald, obviously, Lewiston, Sun Journal, those are both within our state. But because you had such a diverse team that was able to pull together and really make a go of it last year.

Michael McGraw:

Yeah, well, first of all, the team is very talented and mature and had played together for a long time. The players love each other and the community that they live in really supported them. And I think the people involved in making them the players that they are really backed them up and trained a lot of those kids. So I'm kind of lucky. And as far as diversity goes, I mean, the diversity is similar to the one where Rocco Franzelli at Portland and Joel Casting are deering. I mean, that's, they have similar diversified teams as well. So I mean, they, they are, they're. They're two people that I actually like to talk to, especially about our teams. And we, we do talk about, about issues and things that occur. But this team, they did something very special and the sky was the limit for them and they reached for it.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

From what I understand, you had six different nations that were represented on your team last year.

Michael McGraw:

Yep. We had Somalia, Kenya, the Congo, Germany, Turkey, and of course the usa.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

And I believe that there was a fair number of the Somali students who had actually been together in a refugee camp before they even came to the United States.

Michael McGraw:

Well, I don't know if they were all together, but. So their parents were in refugee camps and they were either babies or young kids while they were there. And since refugee camps are sometimes quite large, they may not have known each other, but certainly the one thing that bonds them, the one thing that brings them together is the game.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

You were born and raised in Maine.

Michael McGraw:

Yep.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

You graduated from Lewiston High School, and you've really lived and been a part of the Lewiston community for all. But I believe the four years of your education.

Michael McGraw:

Yep, that's true.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

And which. And then you didn't go too far. You went down to Gorham and got your, your teacher education.

Michael McGraw:

Yes, I did. Yep.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

So you've seen a lot of changes, I would say.

Michael McGraw:

Yeah. Seen changes that from a mill town to a town that is more service oriented and becoming a lot more diverse. There's some great energy in town to create some nice spaces to live and work and have business. And the school is outstanding. I mean, it's still got its Share of issues with the poor and academically trying to reach everybody. But I'll tell you, Lewis and Auburn, these, I believe the schools are just trying the hardest they can to make sure they reach every single kid and that no kid gets left without an opportunity. And I'm finding that it works. It works. All, all we have to do is get the, the adults, parents and the kids all on the same page and some good things are going to happen.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

You've been part of the school system now as an educator for 40 years.

Michael McGraw:

Yep.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

And you teach biology now?

Michael McGraw:

Teach biology, yeah.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

So what have you noticed about the academic situation? I mean, you're a coach, but you also teach. So are you noticing similar things happening within the classroom that you're noticing on the sports field?

Michael McGraw:

Yeah, you know, like, like if you talk about the influx of some of our African population, I've seen that they've gone from. This is a really good thing. They've gone from struggling with the language, struggling with school culture and responsibility, to one of which they want to excel. They wanted to do well. Now, granted, like everybody else, you, you get some kids that can't do well, that don't do well or refuse to do well. But there are more kids that are honor roll students. As a matter of fact, we, two years ago, Muno, who was a Somali student, was the president of her class, which is phenomenal. You know, those kids and those families, they have families are really pushing them to excel in school and not just to graduate, not just to pass, but to excel, go on to good colleges. And I've seen it, and it's working. As a matter of fact, one of my former students, one of my former students is Bates grad. She spoke at one of the celebrations that we had. I've got a player who, two players that are going to go to prep school to prepare themselves for high level soccer and high level education. One of them was recruited by Bates College, Swarthmore and Dartmouth. I mean, it's out there if they want it. And some of the kids are reaching for that, which I think is the, the single most important change for that population from 10 years ago to today. Also, our school is, is doing a lot to try to ramp up the rigor. And I'm finding that, that it's, it's starting to work. Previous superintendent wanted kids, kids to learn how to write better for communication purposes. I'm seeing better writing even from students who struggle. And I got to give credit to the teachers for buying into that and their elementary school teachers who have really Worked so hard. I mean, we have. We have teachers at all levels that just bust their butt to make sure that they're getting the best out to their. To our kids. And I'm happy for that because that's high school. I get that makes my job a little easier.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

Well, yeah, I was thinking as you were talking about being a high school coach and you're a high school teacher, so really you get the benefit of all of the education and all of the coaching and all of the community building and all of the parenting that has happened over the first, say, 12, 14 years of a child's life. And that's important.

Michael McGraw:

Yes, it is. I. I'm lucky. I'm a really lucky coach and a lucky person that I've had longevity. I've seen my share of success. I'm very happy with that. Especially throughout my coaching career. I've been lucky with having great kids who believed in me, believed in what, what I do. I'm lucky now because I have phenomenal players. I have unbelievably good assistant coaches, great assistant coaches. And from the seventh grade on up, I have several people in the community, One of which was my 8th grade coach, Abdullah Abdi, who is probably I call the second father of soccer in Lewiston, because our kids just look up to him, because he does everything. He's a club coach, he's an advisor, he's a counselor. He's like another parent for them. His son is one of my assistant coaches, a great coach. I don't know what I'd do without him. And another coach, Dan Gish, who's been my assistant since 2000, he is one of the most respected teachers and he loves the kids. They love him. And then I've got a goalkeeper coach who's crazy, and you have to be crazy to be a goalkeeper. But I love the guy. He's had tremendous experience throughout the world, and he brings that with him with his passion. And he wasn't sure he was going to coach because high school kids weren't his thing. He was more like college and professional. But as soon as he met my kids, whoa, it just completely turned him around. He loves and they love him back. And because they have that same passion for the game, I get chills just thinking about it.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

What is special about your kids as individuals and as a group? Why are they so passionate?

Michael McGraw:

It's part of their culture. I mean, their culture loves the game. If you go anywhere else in the world and you may talk about NBA basketball, it could be rugby, it could be lacrosse, someplace or cricket or anything. But you go anyplace in the world. And you mentioned the game football, and it's like a religion. If you go to northern Maine for basketball, that's a religion. Snowmobiling and basketball, right. Well, this. And that can only, that's only actually seasonal. But when it comes to the game of football, soccer, for these kids, it's 365 days of the year when they plow out the colossae in the winter, they'll throw down two chunks of snow for gulls. There'll be 24, 25 kids out there playing in their street shoes in the winter. And as soon as the grass is open down at Simod Paine park downtown, where the balloon festival is, it's amazing. I went down there and there's no lie. There's. There's 80 kids playing and there's various different groups that are warming up, getting ready to play a game on a makeshift mainfield. And you know, their ages go from, from 12 to 35. It's, it's a phenomenon. So that's why I'm lucky. I mean, a lot of other coaches, they have to fight with baseball, basketball, hockey to build in a little bit of time. In the off season, my kids are there and I'm lucky, very lucky.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

It's interesting for me to think about even playing during snow. I have three soccer players in my family. I don't think any of them would have gone outside at any stage to play soccer in the snow. And these are people that many of them have come from a very warm climate.

Michael McGraw:

Yep.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

To a very cold climate. And still they're out there.

Michael McGraw:

I think they got to stay warm. But you know, the other thing is, is they live downtown or in low income housing for the most part, and they just get out and it's, you know, get, get away from staying inside and doing something that they love. You know, for some people that might be reading or art or you know, for a lot of other people, they're able to go cross country skiing or you know, travel. But these kids, this is all they've got. And way I take that back, they have really bought into FIFA, little Xbox or PlayStation. Oh my God. But while it's nice outside, while I, while I can play, because I know several of my players, once it gets dark, they'll go home, plug in a game and I especially know of two players that will stay up to about 3 or 4 in the morning and I have to wake them up and that's only because they're so competitive. You know, if this guy wins a game, then his brother will come in and say, we'll play again. They'll go back and forth and anybody's there. It's fun. It's fun. And sometimes I can't take that away from them.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

I've spoken with other young athletes who are Muslim, and one of the things that can be an interesting balance is that sometimes Ramadan will fall during the sports season and you can't, I believe, eat or drink anything from some up to sundown. And if that falls during soccer season, how does that work for you?

Michael McGraw:

Two things that I noticed early on Ramadan came during the season. So, you know, after about a week they, their bodies become a little bit acclimated, but you kind of worry about this. And I distinctly remember it was during, during the regular season we had a night game and at halftime I had to wait until they replenished themselves before I talked because there's no way they'd be able to actually listen to me when they've been fasting all day. So myself, my coach, sit there and wait and a couple of the kids will bring in, bring down food and tea and let them go. And the whole team just ate for a while. So we take the, the 10 minute break took about five to seven minutes for them to replenish themselves and then I could talk. So we had to make sure what we had to say was done quickly. And that actually is probably pretty good because with teenagers, what you say in the first three minutes is totally forgotten in the last three minutes. But that was interesting to see. When Ramadan occurred during pre season tryouts when we had double sessions, that's when I worried because of the weather. But we, we made a couple of adjustments and you know, we didn't take too much off of them, but just wanted to make sure that we watch carefully to make sure because these kids will go as hard as they can go. And when they start to falter, I know it's not because they're being lazy, although there are some lazy players. And, but you get to know who they are. And so that works out pretty good. You know, we've gone through it and know, know what we'd have to do. So the next cycle that it comes during the season is going to be a few years away.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

So you're just, you, it's, it's like anything with it with an athlete. If you know that there's something that you need to work around, you work around it. Yep, this just happened. Happens to be maybe a Larger group of. Of your athletes. But it's.

Michael McGraw:

It's not.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

It's not undoable.

Michael McGraw:

No, they. They. What I like about them is that they'll play pretty well, pretty hard, and then they'll say, coach Ramadan's gonna be this coming Tuesday. So on Thursday's game, watch out. We're gonna be ready. And in fact, that doesn't really happen because then they're fat and happy, or not fat, but, you know, they become satisfied. And it takes them a while to get back into that routine again, but happy. They are definitely happy. I think that's the one thing about my kids, is they are happy. They're happy to be with each other. And I don't mean just the Somali kids and the kids from the Congo. They're happy with everybody. Because what I think is a wonderful thing is that the white players and the black players can. Because of the game, they mesh together. They understand. It's like an international language. You know, the kid from Turkey, the kid from Germany, the kid from the Congo, and the kid from Somalia all play the game the same way, and they enjoy each other. What's interesting is that most of them know maybe four or five languages, you know, and my white kids are great with them. And I always check in and say, how's it going? Does everybody include you? Are you guys getting. And they invariably say, coach, we're fine. We're great. They like each other. And I think it's because they play the game.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

It is. It's interesting to think about just. Even the idea of play. And these are older children, obviously, but I think sometimes that commonality, it can kind of transcend big issues that adults worry about sometimes.

Michael McGraw:

Yeah. Yeah. As a matter of fact. And Kevin Mills, who's a reporter for the Sun Journal, wrote a tremendous article about soccer and integration about three years ago. And I think he got some kind of a national award for it. But in there, he had asked me how I got my kids to at least trust each other or play together or something like that. And I didn't think very much of it at the time, but there was one scenario that in preseason that I found. What I did was I saw the smaller kids in one area in the shade getting ready for practice, and the white kids up on the side of a hill out in the sun. And while they were out in the sun in 95 degree weather that just. Anyway, and so they were there. And I said to my coach, I said this. This really. I really don't think this should. Should happen. They're Segregated, separated. So by the third day, the tryouts after. After the teams have been picked, I said, okay, you. You guys down here.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

You.

Michael McGraw:

I want you right here in the middle. You guys up here. I want you right here in the middle. And then I mixed them up. I took this kid, put them here and that kid. And I. I've explained this. I've told the story dozens of times, but I, you know, that's. I said, this is how you have to play on the field. And. And so what I. What I did was, was I said, you have to. You have to do this. And an amazing thing had happened. Several kids started smiling. So after practice, I said, what were you guys smiling about, Coach? We all wanted to do that, but no, you know, no one was going to take the first step. So you did it. And that was pretty good. And it was, you know, it was kind of a special thing that happened. And so we. It evolved. The idea stuck and it evolved. We had to make sure that they took care of that. And every once in a while I have to revisit it. But it was a pretty special moment.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

We had Jim Wellihan on the show, and he was talking about. He was talking about the French Canadian and the. The Irish Catholic. French Catholic, Irish Catholic. And in Lewiston and how they were kind of. They were two very different groups, and for a long time they kind of circled around each other. And even there was some animosity, there was some difficulties, but eventually everybody kind of came to some general understanding of one another. And obviously your last name, I'm guessing you must have a little Irish in you.

Michael McGraw:

Yeah, I'm Scottish Irish. I don't know. It's a.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

You got some of that. Some of that Celtic thing going on. But isn't it interesting that, you know, that we keep, like, replaying the same newsreel? You know, you bring people in and you have to try to figure it out and you define. You define some commonalities, and then you kind of move in that. Move in a direction together. But it seems like the story just. It's not one that is unheard of.

Michael McGraw:

Nope. It's interesting because my mother's last name is Rivard. And so I'm used to going over to my grandmother's house for dinner when we were little, and it was just a cacophony of French and English and hybrid language going on with 15 people having dinner and then going over to my cousin Bruce's house, my father's side, and it. It being that being rural Maine type of environment. So, I mean, it's like it was. It was an easy thing for me. As a matter of fact, I think. I think I learned French first before I learned English. And. But I've done a little bit of research on that because I. I would tell people that. That, you know, early on when they had the French Irish baseball game, they always had a French Irish baseball game. There were always supposed to be nine innings, but they get to the seventh inning, and if it got that far without a fight, it was considered a good game. You know, And I remember the. I think the first Lewiston Edward Little football game. One of the sports reports on it was it was a very spirited game and that had to be held up a couple times to break up fights on the field and in the stands. And I wouldn't be surprised if it wasn't just rivalry of two schools, but rivalry against French and Irish. And if you could look. You could look at a lot of instances that occurred, and it probably was the same in Biddeford, Sacco, Bangor, Brewer, Waterville, Winslow, you know, all of these cities that were associated with rivers. And so it's out there. And it. To me, it's interesting that when you get a population like the immigrants coming to Maine and everything that goes on, and I don't think. I think everybody took a history course or Maine history, but they forget.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

Well, I think that's true. I think it's always. It's harder to sometimes be in the moment, but understand that this moment is not. It's not new. It's something that has absolutely happened before. And I also think it's interesting that sometimes what we need to do is engage sometimes to just pretend that the conflict doesn't exist and to not get out there on the field and play soccer or have the French Irish game. I mean, sometimes to just pretend that there's not something simmering that. That really doesn't work well at all. You actually need to have a place where you can have some healthy competition. You can have some back and forth and have some shared understanding of something that you feel passionate about.

Michael McGraw:

Having an outlet to expend a lot of the energy, whether it's positive or negative, is a healthy thing. You know, my feeling about competition, especially with my players, is if you go into a game spiritually, tactically and physically ready, ready to play and prepared to play, and you do absolutely everything you can. If you are the superior team, you should win. If you're the inferior team, then you should lose. But. But that isn't always the case. Games aren't won on paper. And I think games are won more mentally and with heart. And that I tell my players that if you, if you've expended everything, you've done everything that you can, then that's why you shake a guy's hand at the end of the game because you played, played a great game. That's what real sportsmanship is about. And, and, and I think, I think our kids, I think Maine kids for the most part actually do that very well because I think their coaches have promoted sportsmanship for the most part. At least the informed coaches. So the younger coaches who haven't been informed or older coaches who never did this well, it's just something that they have to learn. But in my opinion, what I've seen with other coaches and other teams, our kids do a good job.

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

Well, it has truly been a pleasure to have you talking about with me about the Lewiston soccer program, the boys soccer program, and congratulations on your Class A state championship from 2015. I wish you all the best in 2016. We've been speaking with coach Michael McGraw, who is the head coach of the boys soccer team at Lewiston High School. Congratulations on all of you, all that you've accomplished and thank you so much for coming in.

Michael McGraw:

Thank you. This has been a great experience for me to thanks you have been listening

Dr. Lisa Belisle:

to Love Maine radio show number 261, hometown proud. Our guests have included Michael McGraw and Rene Faye LeBlanc. Follow me on Twitter as DrLisa and see my running travel, food and wellness photos as bountiful1 on Instagram. We love to hear from you, so please let us know what you think of Love Maine Radio. We welcome your suggestions for future shows. Also let our sponsors know that you have heard about them here. We are privileged that they enable us to bring Love Maine Radio to you each week. This is Dr. Lisa Belai. Well, I hope that you have enjoyed our Hometown Proud show. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your day. May you have a bountiful life.

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Also referenced: Greater Portland Health